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STI testing after H affair

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Whatnext074 · 09/10/2013 23:31

This is quite difficult for me to post but as some of you know, my H left (well, I threw him out) after discovering his emotional and physical affair with his co-worker.

I have suddenly been faced with the reality that I probably need to get tested for STIs as I know there was an overlap with him sleeping with both of us although he denies it and I know he wouldn't have used protection because he didn't answer me when I asked him.

It is a personal thing I know but does anyone know what is involved in these tests? I am feeling very vulnerable at the moment and it will be hard for me to go through with the tests in my current frame of mind but I know it's something I have to do.

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TheCrumpetQueen · 10/10/2013 07:21

Sorry youre going through this.

It's a bit like a smear, open you with speculum and take a few swabs, takes a few minutes. Take a urine sample and maybe a blood/prick test for HIV if you want that too.

Anytime I've had these tests done, everyone has been very kind and gentle. Good luck

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