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Hubby ordering used stockings from the web - WEIRD!!!

8 replies

pumpkinpie163 · 09/10/2013 11:07

So I already knew my husband was into pornography in a big way...has been excessively using chat rooms, talking to escorts and prefers all that shiz to getting jiggy with me. Its got so bad im planning my departure (tho he doesnt know this yet).

Then lastnight I discovered purely by chance that hes been ordering USED STOCKINGS from the internet. "Why?!" I asked. "Oh I dont remember he replied...probably to masturbate with".

I feel so SICK and and am just waiting for my new house to be ready for me and my kids as ive had enough. But what the fuck is this stocking lark about?! Today hes acting all normal as if its perfectly acceptable!

Am I overreacting?! Im so ashamed to even be associated with him!

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BlissfullyIgnorant · 09/10/2013 11:09

I can't comment, other than 'boak' and to tell you that it's also possible to buy used panties and pre-worn bras. Confused

glastocat · 09/10/2013 11:11

No that is completely grim, you are not over reacting at all.

HotDAMNlifeisgood · 09/10/2013 11:14

If you already know you're leaving, no use getting het up over newly discovered shenanigans: your mind is already made up. And wisely so, if your husband prefers porn and paid-for sex rather than the real person of flesh and blood that he married.

Yes, it's pretty gross, but it's a fairly mainstream fetish. In Japan in the 80s, they used to sell used panties in vending machines...

Can't believe how casual he is in discussing it with you.

CogitoErgoSometimes · 09/10/2013 11:14

If you're already half-way out of the door I would stop asking questions and leaving him to his little perversions. Sometimes it's best not to know.

LittlePeaPod · 09/10/2013 11:14

WTF, get out Op. Just get out..

Boosterseattheballcleaner · 09/10/2013 11:19

Im so ashamed to even be associated with him!

I dont blame you at all

urgh, i couldn't crawl into bed with that on an evening.

Glad you are planning your exit, he sounds grim.

Makqueen2 · 09/10/2013 11:20

Nothing I add, just that I am so glad you and your children are fucking off for a better life Smile

He sounds like a pathetic waste of space and I hope your new home is ready very soon so you don't have to suffer him any longer than you have to.

Jan45 · 09/10/2013 12:29

Who cares, don't even think about it, he sounds a complete weirdo who you don't want to waste any more time on.

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