But what?
The idea is that twice a day I wind down for ten minutes doing something I enjoy.
I'm not doing well!! Apparently ironing doesn't count. I'm not sure I want to confess my mumsnet habit to the counsellor just yet. Online shopping is out of my budget.
I've tried a cup of tea and a book but before I knew it I was doing the ironing instead. 
DP isn't here so I can't ask for a back rub or front rub so what can I do?