I am a bit frustrated and not sure whether my situation is entirely normal or unusual.
Basically I never feel sexual desire going about my normal daily life (except sex scenes in fiction or accidental porn on the net).
I can usually stimulate desire by masturbation, but not as frequently as daily.
so I never initiate sex as I never want it, and I am mostly a little wary when husband initiates as I doubt that I will get interested.
if I get the idea that husband is going to "make a move" I can get myself more in the mood so that I am more receptive when the time comes.
husband is considerate in bed and i enjoy sex and mostly orgasm.
so, I guess my question is, at what point do most women feel desire in a long term relationship? do most wives (not newly weds!) feel sexually blank most of the time? is there anything I can do about it?