Should I be offended

[Hubertscubert]

Had baby 5 wks ago, husband desperate for sex, says if doesn't get it soon a hole in the ground will do

Give him a handjob to allow him a release, but dont let him near your vagina until you are ready.

Why cant he wank himself off!

Jeeeezus.

He's probably feeling left out as the baby has more of your attention now. Very inconsiderate though.

What a sad thread.

Why the fuck should she wank him off? Even if she hadn't just given birth she isn't there to service the poor little lamb's needs . I am sure he has much practice what with being a wanker and he can do it himself.

It doesn't sound like he was joking and it sounds very controlling and demanding.

Feeling left out? Bloody hell. Another baby having an actual baby.

Give him a handjob to allow him a release

Strange, I couldn't find any mention by OP that her husband has both his hands amputated. Where did you see that?

My DP has just said the OP should be offended as it's a horrible thing to say. DP has added that 5 weeks isn't long and the husband should be so worn out with looking after OP and the baby that he hasn't the energy for a shag.

Just thought I'd throw a man's perspective in there.

I personally think I would have told the OP's DH to bugger off and have a wank and come back when he was "relieved" - what a stupid and crass thing to say!