he is driving me mad always fining falt always in a mood then being fine and lovely for a couple of days/weeks then it satrs all over again and when i try to talk to him about it ,its ALWAYS my fault hes odd he even remenbers events that have happen to cause arguments wrongly and makes them my fault has anyone else go a relasionship lioke this and can they get better (ive been trying for 7 !!! years ) i would be graetful for any advise.