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WIBU to email PiLs about DPs behaviour?

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AdamantEve · 01/09/2013 09:36

In a nutshell, DP binge drinks 1/2 times per week. Roughly once per month he has so much he vomits - on himself/ in taxis/ in bed/ on settee - wherever.

Last night he vomited in bedroom carpet while our 2 year old was in the room. It's the first time it's happened in front of our children.

I'm tired of constant promises it will stop and the apologies are getting thinner and thinner as the years go by.

So in a fit of anger, I emailed his parents at 2am to tell him how disgusting their son was and that I was out of ideas how to get through to him.

They've sent an understanding response and apparently are glad I told them and will have a word.

But really, should I have dragged other people into our relationship issues? And especially told his parents, like he's a child?

I was just so fed up of pretending to everyone everything's ok.

Was I unreasonable to email them (I think I may have been) and should I pre warn DP (he'll be pissed off but to be fair, I'm bloody pissed off at him)?

OliviaMMumsnet · 01/09/2013 11:57

Hello OP
Do let us know if you'd like us to move this to our relationships topic
Thanks
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