Am I expecting too much or is he taking the p?

[NancypantsO]

I've been dating someone on and off over the last 4 years.

We seem to get together then spilt up

This time in June I asked him what he wanted because I was not prepared to get involved again unless he was serious about us.

It is now he wants to come round once a week, arrives at 8pm is off and away 1pm the next day . Some weeks he might come down on Wednesday too.

A text once a night to say love you miss you.

Is it possible to have a relationship with this amount of contact or is he taking piss out of me?

*Kick this fucker to the kerb

Honestly, he is worthless

And please keep your wallet in your pocket in future. It is quite clear affection and respect is a priceless commodity.*

As usual, AnyFucker hits the nail on the head!

He sounds a tool to me. You really are better off without a nightly text and a once a week meet up for sex, after 4 years! Is he in another relationship? What about weekends?

You sound nice and shouldn't be wasting your time with him. In this situation, you are better off single and meeting other friends.

What a toad. Who does he think he is?! Make the decision for him.