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Am I just too impatient?

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HMG83 · 26/08/2013 21:21

Been OD for a couple of months, had some nice dates but not met anyone I've wanted to see again.....until yesterday.

We'd been chatting for a while and he'd been keen to meet up, so we finally did yesterday. The date went well, found out we had a lot in common and he said he could stay here all day....

So, we're still talking online but there's been no mention of meeting up again, he said he enjoyed the date and I gave him my number but he hasn't text or called but has messaged via the app.

Is he just not that interested? I'm quite impatient and like things to be open and honest, so if I wasn't interested I would say something, IYKWIM, but he hasn't and yet there's no second date on the horizon yet.

Help me stop overthinking please :)

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akaWisey · 26/08/2013 21:31

Don't keep messaging him. If he likes you he will ask you on another date. Men don't get shy of asking for a second date if the first one was good.

Be busy. Occupy yourself with other things. It's a bloody minefield out there and you aren't alone I can assure you Grin.

HMG83 · 26/08/2013 21:32

Thank you :) I need to get some patience! I hate that you can see when they're online too!!!

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Viking1 · 26/08/2013 21:33

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akaWisey · 26/08/2013 21:34

Well don't go online for a bit. If you're always online and he is too he will know you're not out with some other lucky bloke!!!

tribpot · 26/08/2013 21:34

The date was yesterday and you're wondering why he hasn't arranged a second one yet? Have you never seen Clueless with its succinct explanation of the concept of boy time? Grin

akaWisey · 26/08/2013 21:36

Yeah, well I'm great at talking the talk??..Grin

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