Ok long story cut short. My husband had an affair and we are trying to rebuild.
Anyway, I checked his phone this morning by side swiping and tapping 'I love you' into search. A text from one of his friends was top billing with I love you xx on it. When I tapped it went straight to a text stream between him and his friend. They had been texting about meeting up.
So what I have figured out is that at one point he had her number stored under his friends name, for obvious reasons. But... Is this a recently deleted text from her /him or is it that the words fitted the search and his friend was the last person he texted.
I hope that makes sense to someone. Have done an Internet search but all so techy.
So could it be an old deleted message or not? Thanks