Dh and I have nothing in common, never do anything together, have nothing but the kids to talk about.
He has been violent in the past but nothing recently. He is out of the house 12 hours a day, 7 days a week through choice.
He comes home at night when dc are in bed, hardly sees
them in the morning.
I want to end our marriage but I don't want to cause pain, to him or dc.
I wish I could wake up tomorrow and we were separated but civil, the kids still happy.
Does anyone have any advise?