Paranoid?

[ConfuzzledMummy]

Hi ladies,
I've been dating a lovely lad for about a month and at first it was quite intense always texting each other and stuff, and the past week I'm lucky if I hear from him before 9 o'clock at night. Do you think he's cooling down or am I being paranoid?

If he's not calling, you have to approach it that it's no loss and you've got better things to do. Don't sit by the phone waiting. Resist the temptation to send needy texts and, if he sends one, leave it a good half-hour before you reply :) In the meantime, do your own thing, be with friends etc.

Thanks for replying, he's also got a lot on his mind at the moment with getting contact to see his son and he's in court soon about it. Everything else is going great though when we see each other it's all lovely. Also he's coming to a BBQ with me this weekend so that must be a step in the right direction!