I cant find my thread!

[ImNotBloody14]

I had a thread in relationships but cant find it. Anyway its gone tits up.

Oh shit! What happened with the snigs?

No texting no snigging

He just stopped texting? When?

Seems odd.

I lost your thread too! How's the snigging!!!

Ohhhh no snigging !!! Have u been to see him or text him!?

14, your thread is still there, I was just reading your 0400 posts and a couple of 'oh dear what's happened ' replies - you haven't accidentally hidden it have you? Check the 'hide' button. So, what was the last interaction, did he go 'frosty' on you or has he just vanished?

Sorry- i fell asleep last night.

Last interacyion was tuesday.

Had lunch on sunday and all was great, getting on like a house on fire. I text him sunday evening. He replied. I text him monday to say have a good day back at work as he had been off for 2 weeks and was groaning about going back. I got no reply. I text on tueasday to see if he wanted to go to the cinemA that evening as my dcs were away and he replied. ' already going with friends sorry' so i didnt reply. He hadnt been in touch at all since then til 2am this morning asking how i was. He thinks im a booty call. i didnt reply.

Tell him it's over. Take control.

Obvs lots of backstory here but if it's not making you happy, stop doing it.

We had only see each other a few times so nothing really to be over but im not going to see him again. Im so gutted. He seemed so fucking lovely.

Sorry to read he turned out to be an arse Imnot.

Thanks nicholas

Devastated for you. It all seemed so flirty, grown-up and nice. What a twat.

Either im really shit at telling when someone isnt into me or hes really good at acting. I really didnt have him pegged as that type. He seemed so genuine

Not really over involved. He'd been talking loads about work and what he does, what he'd been up to whilst off and then on the sunday had been moaning about not wanting to go back while the weather was so good.

We'd been in daily contact via text talking about all sorts of things so a text like that was just normal in relation to what had been happenjng

Oh i get that- its just that that's what had been happening- from both sides so i had no indication that it was too much

If it were me and I knew I would be seeing him in passing frequently I'd either completely ignore him from now on or call him on it, that you were unaware you were a just a shig and if he ever wants to be in an adult relationship with another adult it's polite to let you know it was a casual thing it was fun but that he's not looking for anything else.

Any progress?

Hi thistle- ive posted on my other thread with all the recent developments- i dont know what to di really

Can u link the other thread x

Im not sure how on iphone. Its in relationships and it's called oooh i feel ridiculous.

Oh sorry to hear he is being a twat!! I will try find the thread.