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unluckyinlove999 · 16/07/2013 10:36

been with boyfriend 6 months.
He has kept being on dating websites. He is living with someone else.
he claims to be in love with me..but I suspect he is will cheat. So, i set up a fake online account and contacted him and now he wants to meet fake me.
Got the message now and am meeting him for real in 2 hours - what should I do. am scared to confront him just yet

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BloomingRose · 16/07/2013 10:38

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PelvicFloorClenchReminder · 16/07/2013 10:39

I think the "living with someone else" trumps the "on dating website", doesn't it?! Confused

Skintorama · 16/07/2013 10:39

he's living with someone else? What, you mean like a girlfriend/wife?

WTF?

Just dump him and don't look back, don#t debase yourself by meeting him. Fuck him off.

freemanbatch · 16/07/2013 10:39

at the time you're supposed to be meeting, ring him and tell him to get lost and never contact you again while waving at him from across the street and then hold your head high as you walk away and get on with your life without the idiot.

pictish · 16/07/2013 10:40

He is living with someone else? What??

Turn up and ditch him.

What do you mean he is living with someone else?

Upnotdown · 16/07/2013 10:40

Meet and dump in person...He doesn't sound like a keeper. What a shit!

Chivetalking · 16/07/2013 10:44

If he's living with someone else, you're not with him.

Don't turn up. Don't contact him. Don't confront him. What would any of that achieve?

Just walk away.

Not rocket science really.

Cavoodle · 16/07/2013 10:44

Is he living with a partner or a housemate?

You can either turn up and give him the shock of his life and cause a scene. Or not turn up and simply send him a text saying "You're dumped" with a screenshot/photo of his message agreeing to catch up with "fake you" today. Either way, you really should get rid of him.

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Cabrinha · 16/07/2013 10:47

He's living with someone else?
That's not "unluckyinlove" dearie - that's making bad choices and not valuing yourself. Don't meet him. Don't worry about confronting him. A short text "this isn't really working for me, it's over" will do.
And then spend a

Cabrinha · 16/07/2013 10:47

And then spend some time working out why you stayed with him despite the sites, before you go anywhere near starting a new relationship.

Marmotte3 · 16/07/2013 10:50

Would you ever just cop yourself on. Walk away and find yourself a proper/good man. This is going nowhere.

Flobbadobs · 16/07/2013 10:54

If he's living with someone else - I assume his partner? Then he's already cheating. With you. Dump and run as fast as you can, no good can come of this.

LaRegina · 16/07/2013 10:58

So he's already cheating on somebody else - with you.

Are you surprised he would also cheat on you then? I am confused.

LaRegina · 16/07/2013 10:59

And PS how old are you OP? You sound very young - dump him and move on.

RoooneyMara · 16/07/2013 11:03

Are you very young?

This is a life lesson Smile

Dump his sorry arse before he dumps you, he's a wankbadger.

labelwriter · 16/07/2013 11:07

He sounds horrible. Just dump him. Don't meet him, just tell him to fuck off in the most dignified way possible.

CogitoErgoSometimes · 16/07/2013 12:10

Is it the school holidays already.... ? Hmm

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Nanny0gg · 16/07/2013 13:05

he claims to be in love with me. .but I suspect he is will cheat.
Will cheat?

Are you serious?

Gruntfuttock · 16/07/2013 13:16

This is very very bizarre.

BMW6 · 16/07/2013 17:35

Have my first Biscuit

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