I just got home from a very tiring day at my new job to find DP has done absolutely nothing except sleep, shower, eat and play around on the Internet all day. He then wanted sex which I found exasperating. I know I'm exhausted and in a foul mood but I've been having bad thoughts that maybe we're fundamentally mismatched.
I'm the kind of person who is always busy; I currently work two part-time jobs (out of choice) and am studying for a degree-level qualification as well. DP has just left uni and has no clue what he wants to do in the future. He is claiming to still be tired from his finals but I'm losing patience as his finals finished 6 weeks ago now!
He is not looking for a job but the issue is more that he's done nothing. There have been times in my life where I wasn't job-hunting but was still constantly busy; that's just my personality. My DP is very bright but lazy. He also unfortunately has very expensive tastes - not a good combination. I'm the total opposite in terms of ambition. AIBU? Will I feel better after a nap and some food?