Worried about disappearance of OP

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...whose DP was Toad and was also her employer. And was treating her like modern day slave. Don't want to name her in case it causes her a problem. Her thread disappeared a few days ago.

I remember that, I hope she comes back on soon to say shes safe.

she asked for it to be deleted herself

If you think who I think you mean, was there a horrible MIL involved?, then she's still on "here" and safe and well.

I have also been wondering. I tried to search using term 4X as that is the size of shirt Toad wore. She had to wash and iron the huge things.

That's someone else then.