dp chosing to go out with friend rather than me

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here is the thing i love dp with every inch of my body and to me dp is my soul mate,lover,partner,father of my child,best friend all rolled in to 1, we had a big bust up someweeks ago about how he wants to out with his friends so we agreed once a month he would do this.

he is due to go out on sat to the pub from 12-5, now im upset about this now as he has to work tonight(just gone) and tomorrow night then sat going out with his mate to the pub then sun he might have to work as well, next weekend he has to work for defonate then the weekend after that its fathers day then he will have to work the following weekend then that sat we can go out as a couple, by then it would have been 6 weeks since we been out toghether to me that is really selfish of him chosing to go out with his mate rather than me thankyou rant over

not really - if he doesn't go out get shitfaced with is mates - he will resent you. you should really find your own social circle or sommat you want to do in his absence.

you have him every day.

thats the thing though i dont have him all the time so far this week he has been picked up for work at 5:30 every morning hasnt got back till after 7, then yesterday he gets told that he has to work do nights for 2 days, he is allways working.

Our ds is ASD and it is really tough going with him, and i think for our relationship to survive we should be spending quality time toghether when we can but he seems nout wrong in wanting to see his friend