bad language in front of baby

[chocklit]

Am i being unrealistic? i had a baby 5 weekds ago and dh and i have had a few angry words during this time. However what really upset me a few weeks ago is when he swore in front of baby ( inknow she won't understand now, but it wont be long before she will). Dh said he wouldn't do it again and surprise, surprise, he got angry today and did it again. I really hate bad language and don't want dd hearing it from her dad. opinions please

Why does he shout at me when it's the shouting that just makes things worse

Over-reaction central! Girl, do yourself a big big favour, apologise and take the ads and tell him this too. You have a 5wk old baby, now is not the time to start making ludicrous threats to each other! In fact, get him on here this once, on this thread! Let us talk to him!

He shouts because he is frustrated that you are blaming him for everything. He shouts because he thinks he is not being listened to.

Take the AD's. In a few weeks time you will begin to see the light I promise you. Please let your DH read this thread. Tell him we understand - and we understand you too. We can help you both.

If you think only one thing then let that be that your baby will be better off with BOTH of you staying together - forget the shouting. Shouting hasn;t done this, post natal depression has and now you are taking ad's that will lift.

Just leave this window up and walk away from the computer and let him read it, please.

How's it going Chocklit?