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How much do you talk to other people on an average day?

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moonmanic · 14/06/2013 20:15

I'm just curious to find out what the 'norm' is.

I have a 21 month DD who I look after full time. Today, she is staying over at my parents to give me a much needed rest. So today, I have spoken briefly to my mum on the phone and when she came with my dad (who I said nothing to) to pick DD up. It was just basics about DD's needs etc, no full chat or anything. I have texted a couple of friends and been to the cornershop but that is literally the total of my interactions with other people today.

I have college twice a week in the evenings so I get to chat to people then. I go to toddler groups (at least once a week ) so have small talk with the other mums then. I have close friends who I try to meet up with at least a few times a week for a coffee and chat.

I am generally quite shy round people I don't know so find it daunting launching into conversations with people I don't know.

There are a lot of days though that it seems to me that I hardly speak to anyone other than DD (and she is not a great conversationalist being a toddler!).

I think I have turned into some sort of hermit. Am I weird/unusual or are other people like this too?

OliviaMMumsnet · 14/06/2013 21:51

I found the DSes quite good if you're feeling shy- cause you can talk loudly to them but include another person in the conversation - makes it easier to be chatty/friendly IME

One thing I've seen recommended on MN is asking lots of questions of those you meet at toddler groups and then doing damnedest to remember the answers and following up next time - "so how did you get on at that meeting/on your weekend away/did you have a nice time when you went on your girly night out? "

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