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IS HE TELLING ME THE TRUTH?

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caroline18 · 29/05/2006 10:31

hi all
i having some problems with my partner i feel he doesnt always tell me the truth i wanted to know our eldest daugher was on laptop and said to me there were dirty things down loaded i confronted him he says they down load themselves when u go 2 certain sites i not great on pc but it he telling me porkies could someone give me advice please

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Rhubarb · 29/05/2006 13:26

Then do them a huge favour and get rid of this nasty pathetic excuse of a man. Otherwise you could see a case of the ever repeating circle!

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caroline18 · 29/05/2006 13:26

Carmenere
its so good to talk to someone who listens to what u have to say and give their view and advice i really do appreiate it so much

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Carmenere · 29/05/2006 13:26

Well then protect them from having him as a role model for their future boyfriends and husbands. Make them be proud of their mum cause they sure as hell can't be proud of their dad.

Carmenere · 29/05/2006 13:27

Cross posts with Rhubarb Grin We are both saying it cause it makes sense!!

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caroline18 · 29/05/2006 13:27

Rhubarb and all
its so good to talk to someone who listens to what u have to say and give their view and advice i really do appreiate it so much

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caroline18 · 29/05/2006 13:34

have to go and get little one from school i will talk 2 u later
thanks :)

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Carmenere · 29/05/2006 13:35
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caroline18 · 31/05/2006 08:09

hi all
would i be silling in phoning this girl that he was texting what do i say or should i not bother

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nothercules · 31/05/2006 08:35

personally I wouldnt bother. THe point is you believe him capable of it. Have you tried talking to him yet? There is some great advice here in previous posts.

AttilaTheMeerkat · 31/05/2006 08:37

caroline18

Goodness he's done a fine job on belittling any sense of self worth or esteem you have hasn't he?.

He can do whatever he likes and yet you still remain in such a bad environment.

You're going around in circles. Phoning this other girl won't achieve anything and she won't either care or listen to what you have to say.

You need to get angry with your man and do something yourself about your own sorry situation for the sake of your children (who are witnessing all this on a daily basis) because only you have the power to change things for you. What are you teaching them, that's its okay for a woman to be treated like rubbish by her man?.

Carmenere · 31/05/2006 08:39

Caroline18, what good would that do? The girl in question is irrelevant and probably doesn't even know(or care)that he's married. Just be responsible for your own actions and try not to worry about anyone else's.

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caroline18 · 31/05/2006 09:30

i did try talking to him started yelling and shouting the eldest daughter heard this and yes it upset her i try to talk but he yells and shouts this girl he had been texting is from aa he said he was only helping her if that was the case why didnt he tell me

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caroline18 · 31/05/2006 09:31

hes is such a liar and so convincing its unreal he good at talking and getting his way out of situations and to get everyone on his side

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nothercules · 31/05/2006 09:48

Do you want to be with him still in 10 years time?

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caroline18 · 31/05/2006 10:05

no i dont know if i have the strength to break the circle dont know if i am strong enough

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