Well a year ago men was the last thing on my mind. Now after a new bargain wardrobe, yoga, Zumba and trying to think positive a man would go nicely on my arm. Only trouble is the ones I want to fall at my feet aren't and the other ones are too friendly and not my type.. I do tend to look away when a nice guy looks at me because I do not remember how to flirt or to make conversation. Most of all I don't go anywhere other than places for kids or where i earn money and my mums says I will have the kids so go out. Would you say I have confidence issues?, I don't go anywhere?, men do not notice unless you run after them down the road?. What worked for you ?