I think I would like to leave my husband.
We are constantly bickering as he is 'tired' from work. That's his excuse. He's out the door usually before the toddlers are up and gets in around 6. His working day is 8 hours, gets an hour lunch break and travel time to himself. All in all he's out 10 hours a day.
Then he comes home... Everytime the kids make a noise, cry, ask for something etc he complains loudly along the lines of dads tired I can't be bothered. Unless they are sat watching tv he can't be arsed with them. They are under 3 by the way.
He undermines me and when dc misbehave its my fault. He leaves his stuff all over house for me to pick up. I daren't open my mouth to talk to him or I'm wining.
It's miserable.
However he's the wage earner I'm on ESA. If I do leave how on earth can I secure a nice home?