I?ve just found out my husband is cheating, I know we were going through a bad patch (nothing major not talking fighting over silly things trying to work arounf family life and work) but to cheat it has flatten me for six ? I don?t know what to do ? on one hand I want him to stay but every time his phone beeps or he disappears he is on the phone with her they work together which doesn?t help so the next business trip he will be with her ? how can I have him stay and ask him to not see her when they have to work together ? what to do, where to start I haven?t a clue with have small children together and we are financially dependant on him ? I?m well and truly lost