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Calmriver · 25/05/2006 09:33

Hi All,

Need some advice!!!

When I was pregnant with DD, we never had sex once during the pregnancy. When we DID feel like it, we were both too scared!!!!

I am now almost 12 weeks, and same thing(none for the last 12 weeks)

I so badly want to just DO IT, but any ideas on how to,nice and safely!!???

This sounds crazy I know, but don't want to go a year without again!!!!!!

Come on Mumsnetters!!!Don't be shy!!!

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LadyTophamHatt · 25/05/2006 09:36

I can't help because the even the thought of sex while PG horrifies me.

NomDePlume · 25/05/2006 09:36

There are no health risks associated with sex during a normal, healthy pregnancy. Tbh, the baby will be oblivious to your pash session, he/she is very well insulated in there. Orgasm (if you get there) is GOOD for you, it helps tone your uterine muscles. Easier to achieve the big-O in pregnancy too, all the hormones and extra blood flow. Go on, enjoy it Smile

trefusis · 25/05/2006 09:37

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NomDePlume · 25/05/2006 09:37

Sex was better and more satifying when I was expecting DD. Could O at the drop of a hat !!!! Blush

trefusis · 25/05/2006 09:39

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DumbledoresGirl · 25/05/2006 09:42

I once saw a diagram of the penis in the vagina and the position it was in relative to the growing baby. It goes nowhere near the baby, the angle of thrusting (sorry, I know I would be blushing if I was saying this out loud!) is actually away from the baby's position. I don't know if that is what worries you, but it certainly put my mind at rest when I was pregnant.

brimfull · 25/05/2006 09:54

It does no harm whatsoever,I was randy as anything when I was pregnant,and the sex was better.

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Calmriver · 25/05/2006 09:57

thanks guys,

i may surprise dh sometime!!!(wink)

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Tortington · 25/05/2006 11:02

i fucked like a rabbit allthe way through mine - it gave me a higher sex drive dh ws knackered. didn't do anything different apart from inventive positions when my twinpreg belly got huge.

there you are TMI?

maturer · 25/05/2006 21:39

same for me custardo through all three pregnancies. My labido was at its highest (must have been all the hormones)and I had some of the best sex of my life.
I had 3 healthy pregnancies and 3 chidren all born naturally. I confess that after the second (no stitches that time)ressumed bsiness a week later!!!Still the hormones!

NotAnOtter · 25/05/2006 21:41

i am rampant during pg - do it its the best and i have 5 babies to prove it!

jellyjelly · 26/05/2006 09:10

Didnt have much sex but could orgasm in my sleep which was very nice but surprising.

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