Seperated from Ex DH for 2 years and we have remained really good friends. I have tried dating, but it has just not worked out. To be frank, I would like to have .... sex. Ex DH is totally up for it, but I have said no on numerous occasions, but recently I feel like I would like to go there. dont get me wrong I'm really happy since we seperated, but the S.E.X was good with him. Just can't live with him. is it a really bad idea to use him for my selfish needs??? Too scary for AIBU!