I don't really know where to start to be honest and i don't know a great deal of details.
Basically, my DB has been away for the weekend with my DP on his stag weekend (DP's). My SIL called DB yesterday morning to make sure he was up and OK, ready for his flight home etc but the call came through on DB's mobile as number witheld. All i know id that DB answered his phone, no-one said anything so he said hello again and no-one said anything then he said "Sarah". Now I don't know who the hell Sarah is but it sure as hell isn't my SIL.
I know these details are bit random but this is all DP knows, DB was miserable at the airport so DP asked him what was wrong and this is what DB told him had happen, he said he didn't want to talk about it but he was in serious shit and didn't know what he was going to do.
My SIL is 32 weeks pregnant and they have been married just over a year. I just don't know what to do, I want to call my SIL to make sure she is OK, if there is anything I can do, if she wants to get away from DB for a while I would go and meet her and listen if she wanted to talk but I am not meant to know any of this.
When DP told me yesterday he asked me not to say anything until someone else told me as he doesn't want us getting involved and as we don't know exactly what has happened and what DB has done.
I don't know whether I should call or text her about something else and see if she mentions it ? I can't think of the right way to word it but I don't want SIL to think I would "side " with DB just because he is my brother because I wont, I feel absolutely disgusted at the thought of what he might have done.
Sorry this is so long, I just realy don't know what to do and am really worried about SIL :(