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age lost virginity

89 replies

kittykat10 · 14/05/2013 11:16

i guess it a follow up to the number of partners people have had but im wondering what age you lost virginity.

i was 33

OP posts:
VisualiseAHorse · 14/05/2013 15:26

16, with a boy I stayed with for another 4 years :D

CouthyMow · 14/05/2013 15:29

I was 14, HE was 13. I didn't feel coerced into it, and don't regret it.

DukeSilver · 14/05/2013 15:33

17, to a guy who turned out to be gay. Quite sadly that relationship was a highlight of my love life to date.

SamraLee · 14/05/2013 15:52

I was 17 to my then boyfriend, now husband. We have been married for 5 years, but we were dating online since I was 15. We met in real life for the first time when I was 17... So I guess we've been together almost 11 years now. It seems like ages ago and just yesterday all at the same time, how can that be?

Thisisanoutrage · 14/05/2013 16:08

17 on a pile of coats at a house party. He was my boyfriend for about 4 months prior. We used a ted baker condom and I smoked a cigarette after. No idea why. I wasn't a smoker Smile

NeverKnowinglyUnderstood · 14/05/2013 16:14

19 By choice - was rubbish but did it because it had become a huge thing in my head as a result of a non consensual experience at 11

Safyre · 14/05/2013 16:18

17, to my now husband. He was 21.

Chandelierforagirl · 14/05/2013 16:30
  1. It was a very stupid mistake. I was a good girl and was "waiting" for a proper relationship but was begining to think it would never happen. This guy was attractive. I was under no illusions, this was not a proper realtionship, I don't think I even liked him as a person, he was cheating on his girlfriend, I think they might have been engaged, she was studying in another town. I wasn't at all into it, I think he thought I was a bit free with it as he tried to set me up with a friend of his. I got myself out of the stupid situation after a week or two but still cringe when I remember that time. So many mistakes in such a short space of time. Months later I fell in love with the real thing! I married him and were together for ages. We're amicably divorced now but I'm glad I met him!
Kernowgal · 14/05/2013 18:00

22, last year of uni. ONS with my friend's very tasty housemate. He was delicious and it was a great experience, even though he shortly after turned out to be a bit of a tosser. Was very glad I'd waited - had had various fumblings up to that point but none very satisfactory - he knew what he was doing. Ironically I have just (randomly) moved to the same town as him but he's coupled up. DAMN!

JamieandtheMagicTorch · 14/05/2013 18:03

17

JamieandtheMagicTorch · 14/05/2013 18:03

total let down. Although I loved him, I wish it hadn't been with him

BigBlockSingsong · 14/05/2013 18:07

18 with my now fiance, ancient compared to most of my mates.

only been with the one dunno, if that's a good or bad thing.

BigBlockSingsong · 14/05/2013 18:13

Looking back, I really wish I'd got it over with sooner, I had/have no confidence and was terrified of meeting up with people, 'oh what if they see me and run away' and turned a lot of what could have been ONS away due to a fear of being rejected. sex is quite overrated I think in a teen girls head.

shutitweirdo · 14/05/2013 18:27
  1. I thought knowing my luck I'd end up pregnant and didn't feel ready to be a mum until then. Only had 2 partners.
ReluctantlyBeingYoniMassaged · 14/05/2013 18:30
UnnamedFemaleProtagonist · 14/05/2013 18:33
  1. In the woods. It was shit. He did coerce me into it somewhat. I got my own back on him when I was about 18. We were having sex again and I got off him at a crucial moment Wink
mrspaddy · 14/05/2013 18:35

18 ... once then all the way through Uni to terrified to.
Then went a bit mad in .. now happily married

Ashoething · 14/05/2013 19:10
  1. I regret it because the guy was an arse-he was 16 I think? and dumped me pretty soon after it. I didn't have sex again for a year and then it was to a nice guy. Had a 9 month relationship at 18,was heartbroken when he dumped me-had a year of being wild-lots of ons and then met dh at 19Sad
FrankellyMyDearIDontGiveADamn · 14/05/2013 19:23
  1. Having had my first kiss 6 months earlier.

He was 21 and a complete player, I should have seen through him but was too naive and thought the Irish charm was genuine. I met my first proper boyfriend 6 months later and wish I'd waited for him, the sex with him was amazing!

SugarPasteGreyhound · 14/05/2013 19:30

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GilmoursPillow · 14/05/2013 19:48

15 to a 29 year old. At the time I didn't see how wrong it was. It wasn't good either.

Skinnywhippet · 14/05/2013 20:05

Eek, I can't remember now. That's bad. I think I was 20.

Skinnywhippet · 14/05/2013 20:05

And with my oh.

HarleyQuinn · 14/05/2013 20:12
  1. he was a complete twat and I had no self esteem and thought if I didnt have sex now, no one else would ever want to sleep with me, luckily I was wrong Grin
gingeme · 14/05/2013 20:17

My 17th birthday after a chinese takeaway and We were together 2 years Smile.

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