I've had this with my most recent ex. We were happy bar a few hiccups. One friend admitted she was jealous and made comments about us, trying to find loop holes etc. Another friend made some snide comments during my birthday meal.
Most friends were supportive; happy for me when things were going well, pointed out red flags when they needed and sad for me when things didn't work out. I've had mates take me on shopping trips, pedicures, going out with me...honestly, they have been great.
My so called best mate hasn't phoned me since the braek up. She came over to do some woo therapy on me when I'd just broke up and I said no thanks , I just needed a shoulder to cry on. I told her to do the therapy when she was properly qualified and when my head was more sorted. Hasn't bothered since.
So what do I do about my jealous maties? Keep them at arm's length when I next find a man I guess?