DP left his phone. I don't trust him yet due to cheating etc in the past. We are trying to move forward.
I couldn't help myself so I had a nose through the phone. Months worth of text messages to workmates, me, his mum etc etc. I noticed the other day Cass (they have sec history) had text him but strangely none of those texts were in the inbox.
I looked at his call log and sure enough there were records of hundreds of texts sent between him and her over the past few months. I don't know what it was about it was just times and dates of sent and received messages.
I decided to text her pretending to be him to see what happened.
Nothing really much was said just hello, what you doing etc.
DP is in the pub. Turns out she is on her way to that pub with a friend.
they will chat and realise that he didn't text her and that it was me that was texting pretending to be him.
I shouldn't have done it. He will be so pissed off with me when he gets home later.
What I don't get though is why he deleted all the texts in the first place? It was only hers that were deleted, nobody else's.
It seemed a bit strange to me which is why I looked.
How do I explain myself?
He will never admit to anything going on between them now if there is. Also, if there has been something going on surely I've just pushed them further together?
It all comes back to my lack of trust.