Help please!!So the guy I have gone out with 10 years ago is back in my life and he is great, kind, loving, will do anything for me. He has also asked me to marry him. We started going out 2 years ago and haven't had any cause for concern besides this BIG red flag. He is 44 and l am 37. I have one daughter and He has 4 children( 1 girl, 3boys) all by different mothers. Ages are 19, 16,11,3. He looks after all his kids and they don't want for anything. He doesn't get to see the first 3 as much as he would like as they live the other end of the country, moved for better job etc.
He was married to 2 the first and third. The other two were unplanned. The first 3 mothers are not a problem and have moved on. Problem is the 4 th mother who lives an hour drive away from us and won't let him see his child as often as he can because of me and also she only wants him to go to her house and see his son there. He is now going through courts for visitation so hopefully that will be resolved.
My question is, am I heading for a fall? I love him and do want to spend my life with him but I do have some doubt about a man with that many kids by diff women. I told him right from the start no kids and he is ok with that. He just wants to settle down and has said he has her there done that etc.