Hi hoping someone can help. Basically, since having ds 2 and a half years ago, my marriage has got worse and worse. We are now at the stage where we haven't had sex for months, we rarely make conversation and we don't really get on as friends even. We are both stressed a lot, we both work ft and I'm just so sad about what has happened to us. Does anyone know of a book or guide or something that could help us? we can't afford marriage counselling. And leaving him isn't an option I couldn't afford it and I couldn't do it to ds.