DP is incapable of being honest. Particularly about money. He has lied and spun his financial situation for almost the whole 10 years we have been together. I thought we had finally turned a corner last year when he entered a Debt Scheme - and has been sticking to it. He told me that it would be running for about another year.
I've just discovered, by the public register, that the scheme was varied last month and won't be cleared until 2020!
He hasn't talked to me about this. I don't know why he has varied it (or if one of his creditors had). But it makes things bloody difficult. I had been hoping to set up a business but can't see me getting any bank lending as we have a joint mortgage. I think it also realistically stops us moving house.
And if interest rates go up we are fucked. As I had been counting on the scheme being paid off before the economy recovers. - although at the rate George Osbourn is going that might be 2020 anyway.
I just don't know if I can put up with all the lies anymore. If it wasn't for the kids I think I would have left now anyway..