SP yes, by way of recap... nameless was from OKC. I'd dipped my age range to see if there were any decent blokes a bit younger/older than I'd originally specified as the ones in the 37 - 49 range were a bit... Umm...unviable & I'd pretty much worked my way through anyone even halfway semi decent & I'd seen his profile (95% match) and thought he was really sweet & funny & honest about having ME and pretty damn hot from his pics, so I'd awarded him some stars and thought nothing else of it.
Months pass. I forget all about him, he hasn't forgotten about me. 
I got a message saying he kept coming back to my profile and was dropping me a line to say he liked mine... Chatted for a few days, seemed to get on well. Averaged a message every other day, so I'd reply on a Monday, he'd reply on a Tuesday, I'd write back on a Wednesday; nothing over-whelming, a few witty paragraphs. On a couple of occasions I didn't have time to write back & he wittily prodded me and apologised if he had possible caused any offence.... Absolutely no smut or innuendo.
Eventually he asked if I'd like to meet for a cup of tea. We did, at south bank; we rode up and down in the singing lift and I remember thinking he was so funny and laid back and kind :) he was slouched on the sofa and I thought I'd quite like to kiss him then we walked back to the station and parted ways with a kiss on the cheek... I posted something like I'd had two cups of tea in three hours and even if nothing came of it, I'd had a smashing time in the company of a hottie and that was lovely enough. He sent a 'lovely to meet you text' before I'd got home. We swapped the occasional text over the next few days and then I said I'd really like to see him again egged on by vipers so we did, and had a bit of a snog...and then had sex dated for a few weeks before he asked if I'd like to be a couple. I very much would. We are. :)
They are out there, those jigsaw pieces.