Dating Thread 50 .....

[TigsytheTiger]

celebrating half a century of dating chit chat, all welcome ...

Hello dating thread 50!

I'm feeling rather crap, I have just ended things with POF man. 4 months together but it's been rubbish for half of it. He's got so much potential but has way too many guilt issues about his kids and divorce. As someone with her own set of 'issues' I need someone a lot more stable!

So, do I get straight back on the dating wagon or leave it a while?

Hello Pixie sorry about PoF Man. I think there are differing schools of thought, OWW got straight back on OD after LM.

I'd go for straight back on I think, pixiebelle when it's only been four months.

Sps... find and use your block button re: smoking fetish guy (and anyone else not suitable/dodgy etc)

gibber...dont. wanna. go ...gibber...

I don't know where it is! Ill have a search now

Every time I look in the mirror the light falls on my eyebags no jowls....whys didnt I have the fillers!! SOBS!

and

ike! behave... you're lovely. Just go and enjoy yourself :o

Ike - don't make me do my stern work voice ...

On PoF or OKC SPs?

PoF it's on their actual message, so don't delete til you've blocked.

OKC I can't remember as haven't used it for over 18 months but it was quite prominent I think last time I looked.

It POF but I'm using windows app which is shit. I cant even look at messages I've sent on it. Ill get on desktop site and have a look. Get more nutters on POF then ok.

Ike you are fab and he already likes you. Go and enjoy yourself, and if you get shy just let him talk about him

Has anyone read the thread 'Do you recognise anyone in these photos'. Have a read, especially anyone new to OD.

Sorry don't know how to link.

What section is it in scrazy?

Ike, I bet you are far too good looking for him and he won't believe his luck.

I read it earlier scrazy! Mental isn't it

For those who didn't see it, I've managed to add the painting ( sorry it needs rotating though ) - I'll delete it after a little while.

Sorry Lubes, have to dash but if you search my username I have posted on it just now.

Found it

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/_chat/1725918-Do-you-recognise-anyone-in-these-photos

Yeah, I've seen that site before somewhere, a salutary lesson to keep your wits about you.

Pixie just crack on, best way. I'm glad you finished it with him - it's never easy, but he just wasn't what you needed. Hope you're feeling alright.

I'm not feeling alright, feeling a bit Ike ish. All eye bags and nerves. It's much worse when you think you could quite like them. Am wearing perv-proof outfit tonight involving jeans (black, skinny) after my last experience. Don't think Cakey is a groper though.

OWW what winefiend said! Relax and enjoy. Good luck :o

OWW Juliette lubeybooby - I replied with a "didn't you get my reply? not sure which text now...etc" to which he came back with a copy of his last message but saying that he hadn't heard anything back and thought he'd check that I was ok. It seems like a lot of effort for a lie...and to what purpose, really? It'd have been different if we had been planning the next date or similar (Wednesday btw)... So at this point in time, two days of silence is to be kept an eye on but we've only had 4 dates so far and he's really pulled all the stops every time. There is a part of me that feels that I really mustn't let my insecurities get in the way, but I am absolutely terrified of being dragged into some game-playing scenario (just in case I haven't mentioned it previously
Turnip - train ticket story = OMG!
Hugs all!!!