Dating Thread 50 .....

[TigsytheTiger]

celebrating half a century of dating chit chat, all welcome ...

Ha! Kin even better .... you could reply "my goodness, that's quite extraordinary! did you know that if you look at a picture of your cock wearing a pair of 3D glasses it actually moves toward you!" sit back and imagine grubby little man scrabbling for the 3D glasses in his kitchen drawer and then squinting at a picture of his own cock

err that'll be a NO to NANDO'S thanks all the same love!

He needs to arriba, arriba

oh Pom, poor you, . Everyone on here will tell you, it's not you, it's not about being good enough. You need a thick thick skin. It's the whole sweety shop thing, the behaving in a way you may not really behave in real life. I think Bant has said before, it's a numbers game, some people get lucky first time, some the 3rd, 10th or 20th time, and some are still trying. It is just a lottery. keep talking to us lot, use your RL friends and maybe stay off OD for a while until you feel ready?

Tigsy I was going to say ' You want to get that seen to, love' but thought better of it

or Kin as a medical professional can I suggest you get that seen to love, it really shouldn't look like that!

Pom I'm sorry to hear it's making you sad.

OD is hard, it really is. I went into it 4 years ago with an ego the size of a house. I honestly believed, in fact was certain, men would be queuing up to date me. And they weren't, I had years of vanishers, fuckwits and actually (looking back on it now) some really rather unpleasant men. All to try and get a second date, let alone a relationship. The constant rejection is incredibly hard, I only survived it because I was so bloody full of myself when I started, and even then I had many many times when I felt utterly despairing and cried over the unfairness of it all.

Take a break from it, just for a bit, just til you're feeling stronger, til the sun is shining, everything else is going better and you feel able to brave it. I know I did that lots when it all got too overwhelming.

Pom just read your message properly, do you think it might be worth seeing your GP, petal ? The physical symptoms you've mentioned aren't things you should be putting up with, maybe the doctor could help.

pom i am assured i have an incredible bosom & i am clasping you to it lovey. sorry you are feeling low and you're absolutely right the constant rejection from slimeballs is so wearing. sending love & pie.

Thanks everyone. This sadness has just snuck up on me. Thought I was doing so well with everything and now boooom! If I'm not feeling better by the weekend I might go to docs. I really don't want this to break me. I'm strong and most of the time I am happy. Just lost my smile for a bit but I am sure I will get it back.

Tigsy you've given me an idea, next cockshot my response is going to be -

' I'm terribly sorry and have no wish to alarm you, but I am a medical professional working in the sexual health field and from the image you've sent there appears to be a small area of inflammation on the surface of your glans which could be indicative of an issue which may require fairly urgent medical attention '

Pom I know, it's so hard sometimes. Even more difficult when you have young children and can't get out and about and just do normal things and socialise or join groups or whatever. I have all sorts of things on my "To do when the children are older" list. No advice, but I just wanted to say that I understand.

Forget the OD if you're not in the right frame of mind for it, but please carry on coming on here and talking. Lots of hugs, sweetheart.

Haha Kin sheer genius!

Pom, sometimes it just hits and overwhelms you, you have to be gentle with yourself for a little while. Big hug, chuck

OWW can you imagine the sheer panic in their eyes ! I can't wait for my next one now.

that's the one Kin! brilliant!

and can you imagine a visit to the docs - "so MrKnobsnapper, what makes you think you have an area of inflammation on your glans?"

If they're really bad, I might mention Fournier Gangrene. ( do not google unless you're hard as nails, really )

Even if they don't go to the GP, imagine them examining it in various lights, turning it different angles, squinting at it, trying to see the 'inflammation'

bleurgh, don't look Pom you'll be bringing up that shepherd pie

My little man has just climbed into my bed, snuggles into me and told me that he loves me. I have lots to be grateful for

I don't know if I should be happy or sad that I have never received a cock shot!

Be happy, Pom, there's nowt charming about a strange tadger poking in your inbox

Kin I'll second that!

I'm fed up. Started a diet today in pre-party panic (party is a week on Sat, and none of my clothes fit because I am a fat lump) so my dinner was 6 eggs. I hate eggs. Then DS1 just phoned to say he's staying at his mates' tonight. DS2 is going to the Evil Exs tonight til Thurs. So now I am stuck at home on my own, can't arrange anything cos it's far too late. And hungry.

So have eaten a chunky kitkat in annoyance.

There goes the diet

pom you have mail :)

You will all be pleased to know that after snapping away ALL afternoon I have produced ONE suitably blurry photo that makes me look normal. I showed it to my son ( you know how honest kids can be) yes..looks like you ..he says....but younger and without bags. RESULT!!

Popped it on POF and Mr H came on line IMMEDIATLY to congratulate me and assure me that it 'captures me well' think Ive got myself a lil stawkah!