my body

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I asked my partner if I would look better thinner, he said yes. That hurt. Really hurt.

I am a size 16 and have a 9 month old baby. He is gym mad. He wants me to be gym mad too. I know that he finds my post baby body less attractive than before I fell pregnant. I was a size 12 before.

Is he a dick? Should he love my body? Or does he have the right to think and feel the way that he does?

Might be a silly suggestion, but does your bra fit right? Following a thread on here, I measured myself and it turns out I am a 32G not 34DD. The result of a properly fitting bra is that my figure is much improved and I have a waist! I'm still a stone heavier than when I had DS2 (who will be 5 in a couple of weeks so extra weight is clearly going nowhere). If I asked DH if I'm fatter than before he old say yes. If I ask him if her prefers it he would say 'you have boobs'! (I barely filled a B cup Pre kids!!)