How do you make your man feel special?

[Somanykiddies]

Well ladies, what do you do?

do kind things like make cups of tea, nice meal,

Really make an effort to listen to some not-very-interesting-story.

sexy underwear when he gets home.

They are simple creatures!

Can't repeat it on here

rofl noddy

So, apart from the non-repeatable noddy stuff, being attentive, is that it?

I'm still here, is that not enough?

Wake him up with a BJ.

Lol Piffle. Northener, there's a thought! Want dp to eventually realise, through small things, that I am working at 'us', have realised that relationship has slipped a little and need to put in more effort iyswim. Keep the suggestions rolling, rude or otherwise!

I sometimes make the effort and do a 3/4 course meal with candles etc as a surprise.

I pick things that are easy to pre prepare (or get a bit of help from M&S ).

Sorry to hear that annimac. Hopefully we can both pick up some good tips then. Read Relationship Rescue by Phil McGraw the other week, really made me think. There were questions like write five things that you have done that is loving for your partner in the last month? could only manage one. The next question was what have you done that is horrible to your partner. Managed more than five that time! Need Mners help.

I have a collection of cards I've bought when something has taken my eye - might be funny or soppy or both.

I write one out and leave it by his teacup every now and then.

Thanks puff, food is always a good idea, love M & S too! Am planning that for tomorrow night, he's away tonight so want to have a little 'plan' in place for tomorrow!

sh*g him, he's easily pleased

Puff, cards are a fab idea! Wow, bet your other half is a happy bunny!

Lol ProfYaffle.

I am generally too knackered to be the glorious sex kitten I once was, so these things take less energy

lol prof

Aww Puff, that's not good. 'Glorious sex kitten' that's what I want to be, how do you do it, anyone?

yeah, I'm all ears too

Sit and chat while looking at him, or at least concentrating only on him - no ds, no tv, no screen.

At random moment, just say 'phwoar you look gorgeous today love, you have such sexy [shoulders]' or whatever (shoulders probably my thing, ignore that)

sit at his feet and give them a massage - haven't done that one for a while, might do it tonight

give him a lie in and make no hints about when i'm getting one

take a lie in for myself, don't give any instructions and tell him how great he has made me feel

decorated the house with a big banner and bottle of wine when he passed his exams

ring my mum and tell her how proud i am of him, how much he's been doing for me, in front of him

ask him what he's thinking - but my dh is possibly unique in genuinely liking to be asked this, it's taken me 3 years to get used to it

Acnebride, that's great, lots I could do there. Any more, anyone?

Send him sexy text message so he can't wait to get home.

Look him in the eye, smile and ask him if he knows how much you love him/how lucky you are to have him/how happy he makes you/how much you appreciate him

Get some writing icing/chocolate letters and put him a message on a cake

messages I meant!

Thanks everyone, keep em coming.