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OH being a twat

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SaveWaterDrinkMalibu · 31/03/2013 21:44

Have a feeling this will be rather long - but don't want to leave anything out

Me and OH have been together nearly 2years, both still living with parents. About 2 months ago I found texts on his phone from a woman he works with - texts weren't innocent. He deleted her number, changed shifts etc to get away from her yet she carried on.

Since I found out I've been 'diagnosed' with depression - OH refuses to accept it and says I'm not due to having good days and bad days.

Me and OH mum have never got on and since the texts were discovered its been a lot worse, she's even told him to leave me and get with this other woman. I reacted badly and called her stuff I shouldn't have. Since that she's basically stopped my OH seeing me/staying at mine - loads of strain on relationship as he won't tell her to fuck off or even do it politely.

To be honest I don't know what to do anymore.. Advice please

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SweetSeraphim · 31/03/2013 22:23

Oooh, it's all a bit Jeremy Kyle isn't it? I'd get rid of the lot of them tbh.

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Bogeyface · 31/03/2013 22:27

I am guessing that the fiancee doesnt argue with MIL and you do. And of course, by having her arrested you have proved that you will not take her crap so the only thing she can do now is get rid of you.

Tell her that she is welcome to Oedipus!

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ImTooHecsyForYourParty · 31/03/2013 22:28

walk away.

It is just not worth it.

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SaveWaterDrinkMalibu · 31/03/2013 22:31

The sun shines out of the fiancées backside and shell sit there and take the shit and i won't

I see nothing wrong with getting her arrested and charged with assault - she physically assaulted me simple

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Alibabaandthe40nappies · 31/03/2013 22:31

Good God no man is worth all that hassle.

You are young, go and find someone sensible to have a relationship with.

I rather suspect that your depression will improve dramatically once you are no longer involved with this car crash of a family.

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