I posted this in the 'correct' section, but another poster mentioned, it probably makes sense to link here as well:
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/for_free/1712765-Books-FFP-Self-help-the-Lundy-book-plus-2-others?msgid=37958515#37958515
I especially found the Lundy book helpful and have spent a pretty cathartic day clearing out all sorts of stuff I couldn't look at for a while during my marriage and since ex moved out. If any of these books could help anyone on here, then I'd be happy to post them on as I'm in the happy position of no longer needing them (and hopefully the next owner(s) one day will be too!)