Dating chat thread! Number 47

[lubeybooby]

Here we go again folks, all dating related chit chat here.

Oh now I've missed the troll post.

OWW, what a coward, you have done the right thing with him.

Any trot cures...feeling rank ...

oww I can throughly recommend copy, cut and pasting all the lovely and true things everyone has said about you into a draft email or word doc so you can read it when you feel a bit shitty not that I've ever done that because if you feel sad of waver-y or if he contacts you, you can read it and take further heart.

Ike best let it out for now, then if it continues either natural remedies like charcol or some like imodium won't cure it but will stop it. Avoid very fatty foods, milk etc and get plenty of fluids.

OWW never mind putting it in an email, print it out and stick in on the fridge

ike try eating banana .. That should help

Or have something with codeine in it Ike

ike I always have a good meat and two veg type meal with mashed potato if it happens to me... but I think you are veggie? so maybe not the best solution.

ok docs.x

oww I thought I would really miss my ex (he was emotionally unavailable) and I did but the missing was more like a trauma than a true longing for him. Now I don't give him a second thought. Recently I have had to lean on people and I've come to the conclusion that friendship and people knowing me is so important. You are right to feel calm as your mind will be settled.
Im currently drinking a small bottle of processco and eating oven chips. Feed your soul oww. We are here.

Codeine bungs you up - I'm really very professional

And Scatty now I want Prosecco

I will have a can of spritzer stuff when I have sorted this room out

I like codeine it chills you out too... dont have any though...meh...

I have continued on my crisps and tea diet. What a class act we all are eh?

OWW, I can't believe LM was too cowardly to come round and talk. Though at least that made it easier for you to make a decision. And, as others have said, the fact that you feel relatively calm suggests that it's the right decision.

I hope you continue to feel calm/ok-ish and confident about your decision. You're so empathetic, caring and warm, and so funny - somewhere out there is a very lucky man who's going to give you everything you deserve.

It doesn't chill me out, Ike but then even morphine didn't do that - I'm nails me

Can I come and join you? I'm doing the dating thing and getting into a few scrapes...maybe that's better than being bored...not sure though. I've been using OkCupid for about 3 years now and found it pretty good...dipped a toe into murkier waters here and there but not found any other sites I like.

Had a 2 dates with Mr French last week, pretty good...he was away this weekend and I had the unexpected opportunity to entertain (ahem) a very lovely young man last night (he's 33, I'm 46 with 3 teenagers). I've got myself into a stupid pickle over it...he's made it clear in a text today that it's a one-off...and I did know that really but I'm sooo disappointed at the same time. Now I'm not sure if my heart's in it to see Mr French again this week...but that makes me a horrible person, right?

(last night was very very lovely though)

Hello all!

Hello Shiny, it does not make you a horrible person - have you seen WFF's Rules of OD ? They're vair good

Ike - I have loads of codine here which I bad for my bad leg, I was very bunged up with it! And it did make me feel extremely calm! And never calm

you guys...My Rules, they are the summation of the dating thread hive wisdom.

No! where are the rules??

We reckon they should be the first post on every new thread

They should indeed! repost them WFF please and I'll save them ready for the next thread...

I Sony even know the rules? Please post them now