Why are so many people up at this hour? Thread 2

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This is what happens, jynier

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SummerDad - am wide awake (wish that I wasn't!) - see what you started!

THEmidwife good to hear about the aspirin - can I ask you for help with any obsgyn questions please thanks (for you are THE midwife!) crazy was in a tutorial with a CONSULTANT today and asked a very reasonable and relevant question, and she couldn't answer it. She had started off the session really grumpy and saying how wonderfully important she was and talking to us like we were total idiots, and less distinctively less grumpy and humbled. I was a bit irritated because I genuinely thought she'd know the answer and wantd to know it, and google is not throwing up many answers - but I was also a little bit happy that even people who think they are amazingly clever sometimes don't know all the answers

kitty I have visions of you mmaking Chennai, seductive Nigella styley, in a red polka dot apron .. and not much else *washes out brain

jynier how are you feeling?

hey jynier how are you doing?

cafe whats up doc ?

cafe and SummerDad - Am feeling dreadful! Thanks for asking! cafe, was there any discussion with your group about the use of Premarin and other oestrogens?

whatsup doc

hmm I need to either sleep or work. Instead, I am faffing about online. Someone tell em to go away

I know if I go to bed though, I won't sleep. I hate that- lying there thinking I am tired and why can't I sleep. harumph.

how are you doing summerdad?

em = me!

currently listening to a song called chocolate&flowers, staring at the massive amount of stuff I don't know for my 9am interrogation session in the morning. hmm.. think my kitchen floor needs cleaning

I am good cafe, I am up again tonight after enjoying sound slumber for a week or so hehehe, thinking about getting some work done but can't be bothered

Jynier I am quite rubbish at consoling generally but I am here if that could help in any way.

Morning all bounces onto thread smiling a massive grin admiring her bright eyes and bushy tail ( which as been backcombed and is massive)

Yes Kitty had bath before morning sleep but legs ached and throbbed so much didnt get to sleep till after 9am and up at 1pm napped a hour or so around 4pm then slept at about 8:30pm and now awake with a crooked neck.

Just made a brew for my poorly dp whos been sat on the loo for 3 days thanks dominos pizza

And have looked everywhere and I mean every nook and crany in the flat for sennaklot for me cant find grr ( due to inhaling codine for the last 24 hours)
So may have to tidy two junk drawers and the writing brewra ( sp)

Sigh dp just looked into.his brew cup and sighed may need to get the kettle on again

Waves to all

hey stars

Hey summer dad what work are you supposing to be doing ( nosy) glad to hear you got some sleep

hehehe stars I am not supposed to do any work per se was just thinking of making use of my "spare" time to do something more useful - as always

Tx, SummerDad! - I am feeling so angry and outraged!!! Anger that my beloved partner lied; anger that my precious younger brother died; anger that my darling BF died! Darling bro and BF were not treated properly by NHS! So f***g angry!!!

Am crying now ...

I am so sorry to know all this jynier, I read your post in another thread it must be really hard for you to go through all this. It might sound cliched but I really feel for you.

I wish I could make it easy for you jynier in any way, my sincere and best wishes are with you dear.

still here jynier, are you ok?

Oh jynier sending my best wishes too

Off to catch up on some tv back soon

jynier- on a practical level do you think it's worth considering whether the next of kin of your BF or Dbrother could pursue a claim at all? I worked in med neg for many years, before changing sides as it were. Alternatively, can you pinpoint certain events in the care that are troubling you? If you can, can you write to the hospital to trigger an SUI into it and possibly get a written response? It may help to know it won't happen again and has been acknowledged - but sadly of course many people don't have good care in hospitals and it's not due to actionable negligence.

SO... F***G ... AWFUL!!! My brother did nothing to deserve his dreadful and painful illness; he had never been unwell in his life!!! It was so terrible for his wife and children!!! My darling friend was ignored by her GP, who prescribed anti-depressants when, in fact, she had cancer! I knew that she was seriously ill and I'm not a doctor!!!

cafe - I tried to send a complaint about lack of care. I realised that my brother was in the terminal ward (my SIL and children did not seem to know what was going on - they were all totally bewildered) and he was not receiving basic care (my bro is so easy-going and cheerful that he couldn't see any problem! He didn't want to upset anyone!). My complaint could not be dealt with as I am not his next-of-kin. He was put on the LCP. My older brother thought that young bro was being given morphine for constipation; had to gently explain that this was not the case and that our beloved one would die quite soon. We got there with our sister 10 minutes too late. Sad.

So sorry to read that jynier. I have no idea of your backstory. It sounds ghastly.

Thanks, all! Am suffering from a massive overdose of grief/loss/self-pity!!! Would love to turn back the clock but realise that it's impossible. Appreciate all your kind words.