Hi everyone. Well I posted about this time last yr after I found credit card statements for dh. We have been together 2 yrs, got married 5 months ago and things are good between us. We are ttc but having difficulties.
Anyway I nearly always secretely check his statements if I can find them, I know this is wrong but I worry what he outs on the card.
The past fews months every now and then something will flag up, a random payment to paypal which I thought was a dating site and turns out I researched wrongly. I did confront him but he said no way. A couple times aworks have come up. We ended up having row and him saying I dont trust him etc.
Now, 2 days ago the credit card statement came through, he opened it read out the couple of things I knew about and then put it on the side back in the envelop. I know I shouldn't have checked but I look and it was only the first part of it and the page was missing with all the spends on it.
So last night his work coat was hanging in the bedroom and I knew full well the page was in his pocket so I went to the loo and looked cos I was worried he was hiding something. On there was a £40 payment to awork. Arghhh.
Anyway the story gets better. He came up while I was in the loo and said he was getting phone out of his pocket and then went down. When I came out I checked and the oaoer was gone! He had put it in his jogging trousers he had on! So this morning I cleaned the bedroom whike he was getting ready for work and took his jogging trousers for washibg, he said they dont need washing and then he asked me to get his lunch ready downstairs cos he was in rush. So I did.
Now he has gone to work and the paper has gone again!
What do I do? We have been married 5 months. I have 2 children from previous. I dont want to confront him cos he will say im checking up on him. Do I monitor it for a few more months? I think he knows im onto him and have seen the paper cos he says I have been funny with him. Arghhh!