Dp doesnt trust me!

[LUCIA22]

Dp tells me he is upset by my apparent flirting and although we have been together for 12 year, have 2 children and are about to get married it makes him doubt my fidelity. I have never been unfaithful or wanted to be, i am completely unaware of flirting but he doesnt believe me. He wants it to stop but how cant I stop something that I am unaware of?. It is making me feel paranoid about being around any men. I am not sure if it is my behaviour at fault or his perception of it. I am at a loss what to do as I hate being accused of something I havent done.

They bloody well are always told. Just search " always trust your instincts " o "your instincts are always right " or "follow your instincts"

It's a mumsnet disease and this post reveals if to b a ridiculous mantra

Get rid. Living with an unreasonably jealous partner is unbearable.

At a minimum, let him know that he is driving you away.

Look, if they're like that, they don't change. They're not looking at what you're really doing, they're looking at a little imaginary image of you that may be doing all sorts of things they dream up. It is nothing to do with your behaviour and everything to do with a need to control you.

Run away, run away. Of course he'll tell you and his mum and all his mates that you're leaving him because you want to shag around, but he's already saying that anyway. The only difference is that it won't be your problem any more.