We need councelling

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We've never used it, how do we find it?
How much does it cost?

You could try relate
Or you could have a look at this website and make sure you choose "couples" as the type of client. But beware, lots of counsellors / therapists will say that they see couples when in fact they mostly work with individuals, but may have limited training working with couples. You would be better off filtering the results to find people who specialise in seeing couples. You would usually pay upwards of £40 per session.