If your DP/DH said that you had Bingo wings would you laugh along?
What if he also said that the only thing wrong with you is that you have a bit of a 'baby belly' and once you got rid of that you'd be perfect? (consider that your youngest is now 5 years old)
Also, how about if he then said you have proper "child bearing" hips but then said he doesnt mean that in a bad way?
Am I being over-sensitive?