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Oh gawd I can't stand it

38 replies

emkana · 26/04/2006 09:19

My friend phoned me late last night - she is having an affair with a married man who is saying clearly to her that he a/ is not in love with her b/doesn't want her to fall in love with him c/won't leave his wife.

Still friend going on on the phone last night about how he acts as if he is in love with her so do I think he might be in love without saying blahblah...

honestly I haven't got time for this.
Told her to stop all this immediately for her own good, but I bet she won't listen to my advice.

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spursmum · 26/04/2006 09:23

Hurrah for you!! Sounds like she needed someone to spell it out for her. But true you never listen to anyone else, I certainly didn't when I was told an XP was cheating on me.
Don't worry yourself about it. She'll wake up eventually.

cod · 26/04/2006 09:28

tell ehr i am sorry but i ahve heard enough
i cnat condone it and i am your freind but i have my own problems to worry baout at the moment that ubkke oyurs are not selfinflicted and inifinitely more sserius.
there!
ill tell ehrWink

hunkermunkfish · 26/04/2006 09:30

ROFL! Yes, get Cod to ring her!

Oh, Emkana, you don't need this!

As for phoning late...I hate that!

cod · 26/04/2006 09:31

perleaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaase

or email ehr

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emkana · 26/04/2006 09:35

Would love to see my (German) friend's face if some strange English woman phoned her and introduced herself as emkana's aquaintance of the internet...
pmsl

cod, I'm normally pretty good at reading your posts, but you lost me on "ubkke"?

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cod · 26/04/2006 09:36

i do german
i can speak it

cod · 26/04/2006 09:36

"unlike"

cod · 26/04/2006 09:37

(see hunker she thoguht id fall att he first hurdle - "language" - but nothing deters the fish!!)

emakan i htink you need a nice day ouyt wiht your dd
what have you planned

expatinscotland · 26/04/2006 09:37

send her to me. i'll sort her out. dozy bint.

cod · 26/04/2006 09:38

ah but oyu cna only spea americano
you are no use
shoev off

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emkana · 26/04/2006 09:38

Well I'm sat her atm becaue my cleaner (I know, I'm decadent - SAHM with a cleaner) is supposed to be her this morning.

She's late though and I can't stand lateness.
Punctuality very important to us Germans...Wink

So am now considering going out and saying "sod it" to the cleaner.

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expatinscotland · 26/04/2006 09:39

i speak spanish, french and enough german to tell her he's a scheitzkopf.

cod · 26/04/2006 09:39

oh go on go out
and go and hvae lunch wiht dd and d buy yourselves a peesne t each
youll fell s o much better ot get out imo

cod · 26/04/2006 09:40

ex[at mind yer language

expatinscotland · 26/04/2006 09:40

nicht alle tasse im schrank?

cod · 26/04/2006 09:41

lol

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emkana · 26/04/2006 09:41

Grin, especially at "scheitzkopf"

Yeah I think I will go out in a minute.

Cheered me up talking to you lot, thank you!

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cod · 26/04/2006 09:42

aha we ai m to please
ok lets set her targets to ahcive
you have to do things.......

ok my one
please buy me a bretzl
and get dd one of those milka bars

oliveoil · 26/04/2006 09:45

I don't speak german but I could tell her she is a disgrace is a gruff mancunian manner that will make her knees knock

dd1 was fed up recently so we went for lunch and she was allowed her cake before her sandwiches, then got a My Little Pony (hideous) and some crepe paper and glue from ELC. She beamed for days. Easily pleased at 3.

xx

expatinscotland · 26/04/2006 09:45

mmm, bretzl. yummy. when i lived outside strasbourg i would have a bretzl every day after school.

oliveoil · 26/04/2006 09:46

what is a "scheitzkopf"??

cod · 26/04/2006 09:47

never a word i used au pairing fro three under 5s

cod · 26/04/2006 09:47

come on more tagets for emkana

you haev to try on somethign you woudl never have normally looke d at

hunkermunkfish · 26/04/2006 09:52

You must admire three pairs of shoes, and find us something hideous to giggle over later.

hunkermunkfish · 26/04/2006 09:52

(Even Cod will giggle... Wink)