Husband having affair with 26 year old

[Sarah8686]

I am sure even though he denies it my husband is having an affair with a young girl from work. He is old enough to be her dad! He has told me he wants to move out and he is not happy but only last year Oct I have birth to our little girl and have a toddler too. What do I do?

I'm sorry op. Have you found anything that could confirm an affair?

Pack his bags and tell him he will be hearing from your solicitor.

I know that seems harsh, but believe me it's better than tiptoeing miserably around in a relationship with a man who says he doesn't want you and whom you suspect is sleeping with other women.

Sorry this has happened to you. You need to urgently get some RL support for yourself and your children because it sounds like he's on his way out, despite his denials. Do also seek legal advice. Good luck.

So, he is not happy oh well there you are then. Was he kind and attentive during pregnancy? A hands on dad with toddler? Did his not being happy coincide with late nights at work, being glued to his phone when at home, making an effort to look smart or get in better shape then gradually finding fault with you or the house? He may not already have slept with this girl, he may crossed that line, or even have some idea of having his cake at home and eating it elsewhere too.

Don't break your neck trying to be all things for him to keep him happy or make him stay. If he thinks he can do better he'll go no matter how you beg or 'try harder'. Make sure that you have access to money and please get legal advice.