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Rockbottom..

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chocoholic89 · 03/02/2013 23:08

My lifes amess.I have split up with my bf and I now have myself and my little boy.No friends and have nx with my family as they are toxic in my life.
He been spending more time in pub and with his family rather than seeing his baby and gf.I can't stop crying I feel so lonley.

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IfYoureHappyAndYouKnowIt · 03/02/2013 23:33

Hi Choco

Plenty of us he to hold your hand.

Horrible situation to be in.

How old is DS. Do you go out to work?

tallwivglasses · 03/02/2013 23:36

Your life would have been a mess if you'd stayed with a man who listed you and ds so low in his priorities. Things will get better, I promise. Can you speak to your health visitor or GP?

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chocoholic89 · 03/02/2013 23:36

Im still on mat leave ds is 15 week old.

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chocoholic89 · 03/02/2013 23:39

Yeah I gt an app wiv counciler to talk about things on my mind abouut my parents.

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Middy86 · 03/02/2013 23:39

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IfYoureHappyAndYouKnowIt · 03/02/2013 23:40

Have you met any other mums with babies or would it be an option to join a mother and baby group of some sort?

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chocoholic89 · 03/02/2013 23:46

Yeah I have been told about them but very nervous about...I wish I didt feel the way I do he belittled me as a mum and as a person.I love my little boy so much he worth all the pain :-).

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chocoholic89 · 03/02/2013 23:52

I just don't know what to do I can't stop crying about him we was together 4 years.My baby Was planned and I found porn on his phone when I was pregnant not lurking on it was lookin for a number.Things havnt been right since then.He is 7yrs older then me aswel.

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IfYoureHappyAndYouKnowIt · 04/02/2013 00:00

I think it would help to see the doctor quickly.

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