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Dating chat thread still going! Number 39

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lubeybooby · 02/02/2013 12:26

Here we are all

Dating related chit chat here

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MsCellophane · 05/02/2013 08:31

Watch enjoy but keep your sensible head on

I just got woke up with a text from MrCM, velvet you were right. Now wondering what he wants this time. So not so sad but very wary

VelvetSpoon · 05/02/2013 08:40

Watch, enjoy it but do be on your guard. The keeness seems a bit for effect, like he wasnt this keen when you actually spent the night with him...I don't know, I think I would be wary, even for something casual.

MsC, I'm not often right! Glad you heard from him but I think you're right to be a little wary. I'd be concerned he might blow hot and cold a bit, and not really know what he wants. Its hard though when you like someone and feel theres a connection because you want something to come of it, so keep giving them chances (or I do anyway).

Flipper, is it your scan today? Fingers firmly crossed all is well :)

I am still a bit unwell. Have eaten a bit but every time I end up with bad stomach cramps. No more sickness or anything though, which is something.

KinNora · 05/02/2013 08:51

Good morning everybody,

Flipper, hope things are ok with your scan, will be doing a virtual hand hold.
Hope you're ok, Lubey, will have a look on your other thread in a minute.
Velvet, glad you're feeling better, all my dc ( and now me ) have had this, I think it takes a few days to get over ( I had a tiny bit of breakfast this morning, then gave up ).
Bant, it's nice to see you, have fun on the continent.

Have a good day everyone and stay safe out there.

lubeybooby · 05/02/2013 09:07

Watch I agree with velvet something isn't right with him.

There's keen and there's pestering. He seems to have trouble with the words 'no I can't see you' and that isn't chemistry or keenness it's another demonstration of what he thinks about women (no valid opinion, you don't really mean it, seeing as you're only good for sex and tea, I'll wear down your boundaries, I'll manipulate you)

red flag city he is. I would cut and run TODAY, like, five minutes ago.

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lubeybooby · 05/02/2013 09:08

Flipper good luck today

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ike1 · 05/02/2013 09:26

Flips....good luck my darling girl. Yes Watch RB territory indeed...Lubes I am following Kin over to the other thread. Hope all the lurgified feel better soon. Yes MrsC...wary is the name of the game I reckon.x

OhWesternWind · 05/02/2013 09:28

Velvet hope you're feeling better soon, and you too Nora

Flipper good luck for the scan! I can remember this, it's wonderful to see the baby, absolutely wonderful.

Bant good to hear from you. You are far too busy to be dating at the moment so of course this is the moment when someone lovely is going to show up . . .

Watch for what it's worth, I agree with Lubey. This guy seems a bit weird and isn't respecting what you say, and I really wouldn't go any further with him.

Libby sorry to upset you with what I posted, I really didn't mean to criticise or make you feel worse. We all find our own way to deal with these issues, and I hope you are feeling better and more positive about things today.

I am feeling much better and brighter in spirits. Seeing LM tomorrow - not sure what we are going to do but one thing I am NOT going to do is start off any heavy conversations with him. I just want to have a few good nights out and enjoy myself with him and take things as they come. This is going to be a difficult month as the first anniversary of an important family bereavement is coming up very soon, so I'm just going to take the lead from him for a couple of weeks until he is through this. I think I'm going to tell him that tomorrow ie that if he wants to have more time to himself to deal with things, that's fine, if he wants to see me more for a bit of support or to take his mind off it, that's fine too, and we'll get back to normal once this has passed.

OhWesternWind · 05/02/2013 09:30

LM's family, not mine.

KinNora · 05/02/2013 09:35

OWW, how's the tooth ? I'm sorry, I was so busy poncing around like a consumptive Victorian that I forgot to ask.

ike1 · 05/02/2013 09:38

To be honest OWW dont say anything ...just ask him how he is feeling and go with the flow...you might be premeditating issues.

OhWesternWind · 05/02/2013 09:39

Much better, thanks Nora. I can actually rest my teeth together on that side now without feeling the pain so it's a huge improvement. And I don't feel under the weather any more either, which I had done for a few days - combination of this abscess thing starting off and period-related hormonal bollocks, I think. Onward and upward!

Hope you're taking it easy today.

AndLibbyMakesThree · 05/02/2013 09:48

OWW, I'm so sorry, I don't mean you made me cry in a bad way! I just meant that you seemed to totally 'get' me and how I was feeling. It was a nice kind of crying, if you see what I mean - the relief of feeling that someone understands. Sorry for the misunderstanding! And so glad that your tooth is feeling better.

KinNora · 05/02/2013 09:54

Well I bet that's a real relief, OWW, pain and feeling under the weather always makes everything seem much worse in my experience, makes it hard to see the light.

OhWesternWind · 05/02/2013 10:00

Oh glad to hear that Libby! Happy to talk about this any time you feel a bit wobbly.

Winefiend · 05/02/2013 10:01

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KinNora · 05/02/2013 10:29

By the way, hello Winefiend.

Snapespeare · 05/02/2013 11:14

I had a dream about voldemort.

It was not a nice dream. I am happily deleting the last few residual saved photos. Freedom!

KinNora · 05/02/2013 12:17

That's excellent news, Snape, the ridiculous callow micro-pizzle was never worthy of you.

JulietteMontague · 05/02/2013 12:41

Snape oh yess!!!! freedom indeed

Bant good to hear from you, I would have thought you'd be hot property over there, watch yourself Grin

Watch I wouldn't let him anywhere near my place of work or home, although I'm assuming he already knows where you work. Are you sure he isn't actually Russell Brand self confessed narcissist? By all means meet up with him but maybe keep him off your own home patch.

48 it's lovely to hear how you now feel about Mr R&R.

I have the second date with Morning Man tonight, its been rearranged later than originally planned thing as he unexpectedly has his DC tonight.

Snapespeare · 05/02/2013 12:55

And I am having a nice morning Internet stalking the nameless including nicking photos from his Flickr....for...flicking 'research purposes'

VelvetSpoon · 05/02/2013 13:02

Snape can't beat a bit of internet stalking :)

Having been confined to bed for the last 2 days I have run out of people to 'research' found Cuthbert's Twitter, v boring as he has only tweeted 5 times about a year ago...

watchoutforthatsnail · 05/02/2013 17:05

flipper, how did it go?

Velv, you feeling much better now/

mrsc, forgot to say, bless you being sad. hope it clears a little soon.

noted what you all have said. lunch was good, he brought me food and we snogged in my work car park. I dont think its too keen, not seeing him now till friday, if i hadnt have seen him today it would have been a whole week...... I just see it as a snacthed momment of time. not as forboding in any way.

also, his intentions can be whatever they want. Mine are to have as much fun as possible and shag with wild abandon. The only thing that is important are my intentions.....

lubeybooby · 05/02/2013 17:11

Checking in hoping flipper is ok

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watchoutforthatsnail · 05/02/2013 17:22

just posted on your other thread lubey.....

JulietteMontague · 05/02/2013 17:24