Dating chat thread still going! Number 39

[lubeybooby]

Here we are all

Dating related chit chat here

Wine. Its official, you are my twin!! You do realise this makes you doomed to singleness forever :)

Yes goaty ike, the clash of two strong personaluties is what is causing all the spark it would burn out in a month or so anyway because nothing that high engery can be substained. Or, not in a healthy wAY/ HEAlthy relationship anyway.
Am fully aware and going to see anyway because i cant help myself

See I need someone to keep me FROM my demons not drive me towards them with a whip and bit. See what happened to Paula Yates...with Geldof it was the occasional glass of Baileys, Hutchence the full blown Heroin addiction. No ta.

I think I need someone nice.

I do have a tendency to go for the ones who can't keep their temper, get into fights, drive too fast, take risks, do dangerous stuff, etc. and it never ends well....

If I met the right person I am not sure I would be able to pull back from the edge so I try not to invite too much danger IYSWIM. Myself and TR are messaging each other on OKC ...lol Had a check on the other size there are LOADS of bi women in my area on OKC...

SIDE

Right as in wrong ...oh you know what i mean....that's why I tend not to dabble in dirty rugs.

dirty rugs are always a bad idea :o

yeah were you around for the merkin convo merc? Eye opening/watering...

Its also why I am wary of too much spark...I like to keep a bit of myself back...not lose my head ...I know I have the potential to self -destruct and I have witnessed people close to me lose their minds... I aint goin down that road.

Yeah but youre talking about a fully rounded individual there Wine....not many of those going spare in the OD world it seems....

Well I had a chat with my brothers mate and told him we won't be able to carry on which he agreed with. But also said he likes me and told my brother before that he likes me and finds me attractive!

I fancy him and the sex was good, but he's about three years younger and a bit silly! If he wasn't my brothers friend then I would see him again. And he was being really sweet!

I feel like saying we can chill but in secret, but these secrets never last too long!

Oh, if he were dangerous id run a mile. I dont do violence and fights and sexually ive got the upper hand. Plus ive now got him dangling by a rope till friday :)

If he dicks me about then i will leave it though. Interestingly he did offer to come round last night at 8:30 but said he would only have 2 hours and its a bit crap to shag and run and he wants to actually see me too but it was up to me. I said no.
I also said no when he said he was coming at 9:30 and would stay till 12 and again when he wanted to come at 10till 5 am ( work).
So im the one with the power for the momment.

Moving, is it not an option to just casuallydate for a while and see what happens?

But yeah, im not looking for long term with him. Ive got nothing interesting on the horizon, havent had regular sex since sept so something crazy.and fun would be good :)

What I like about the thing I have going with Mr R&R is that there is no power game. For the first time maybe I am in a relationship based on openess and mutal respect. I have discovered an affectionate me that I didn't know exsisted. I am free off all the crap. It is the biggest turn on ever

Oh, yeah. In a relationship.... sure. Which is why im sure i dont want a relationship with him. Its a bloody nightmare to be with someone full time like that.

Hes texted morning and asked if he can see me at all today.
He cant. Im working and then hes working when im finished

Fun. Its just all fun. Cant see the harm.

Just a quick post from me as I have way too much going on to be able to date. I ended my subscription with Match as it was a waste of money if I'm not around here enough to be able to date, and lo and behold, somehow those clever people at Match.com seem to have tweaked something, or advertised me in new places or something to try and hook me back in just before the subscription expires.

I went from getting 2 or 3 views a day for the last couple of weeks up to yesterday getting 50 views, 12 winks and 5 messages. From Spain, iceland, scotland and a few local less-than-attractive women (there was one wink from someone I'd date going on her looks) - but no, that's it from me for the moment. I'll try RL dating and let you know how Eastern European women are. Apparently it's my company's strategy to get British blokes to move out there for a short term contract, and assume they'll fall for the wiles of a local woman and never leave.. Don't think that's likely myself..

Cheers all, good luck to everyone

Keen. Keen?

Hes coming to see me in my lunch break. I only get 30 mins. He lives 25 mins away.

:)

Hi Bant Nice to see you.

Watch The over keeness would worry me. It seem like massive game playing to me.

Off to work.